"God knows that you can not receive advice that is only a theory, because it is God's getirnya bitter taste to you, so that you easily and do not mind to leave."
The advice received is theoretically possible only person who has provided his heart to accept that advice, and is not interested in love and the pleasures of the world that is full of sham and deception.
Allah swt. says:
Surat Az-Zumar 39 verse 22: "And if the people who opened their hearts by God to the Islamic religion" he gets a light from his Lord (is equal to a person whose heart of stone) ?.
Allah swt. says:
Surat Al-An'am 6 verse 32: "And the life of this world is only play and amusement. While the country hereafter, it is better for those who fear Allah.
(Open Qs 57 verse 20).
But for those whose hearts are filled with love for the world and kesenagan-kesengannya, then pearls nasehatpun will not do any good. So, we need a way hard and coercion by various calamities and disasters that would otherwise be made aware.
Allah swt. says:
Surat At-Tawbah 9 verse 24: "Say, 'If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your family, the wealth that ye have gained, commerce you fear loss, and houses dwellings you love, you love more than God and His Messenger and jihad in the path of his. then wait until Allah gives his decision.
When the distraught man, examinations of God, then he is not happy the world, and wanted to die, to be separated from this mortal world, breaking Asa etc. The trials are commonly tested God, such as poverty, disease, hunger, fear, loss of property, loss of someone who is in love, the death of a person in care, etc. It is all true and warnings hard way as the awareness that man back to God Almighty.
When a man can not be aware of the touch - a touch of subtle ways or with advice-advice that is given to him, so he had to be dragged by the chains of the temptation to get into heaven.
Qs. 8. Al-Anfal verse 42: "But God's will implement a business to be carried out, namely that it is perishing perish with real information and that people who live the real life information. Indeed, Allah is Hearing, Knowing.
Surat Az-Zumar 39 verse 61: "And God save those who fear them because they kemenagan. They are not in touch by doom and do not grieve.
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In fact:
You do not know what God will give to you in the days to come, the
Berdo'alah for you:
"Yaa Allah. Verily Pekara it is in thy power, everything is covered from my knowledge. In fact I do not know what should I choose for myself, then pilihkanlah what is best for me, guide me to get the things that are best for you, as well as commendable the end in view of religion, the world and the hereafter. Thou art the Almighty for everything.
